Maybe a friend suggested it, or you kept hearing about it and decided to finally give it a try.

At first, it felt exciting!

Like the thrill of a new package arriving at your front door.

You got a few matches, maybe even went on a couple of dates.

But then what happened?

The excitement faded.

Swipe after swipe, message after message, you hoped to find your partner in crime, but trying to show your awesome personality wasn’t possible digitally.

Of course, you did try.

You polished up your profile.

You hired a professional “dating” photographer (I still don’t know what this means).

You crafted witty lines in replies and improved your text game using ChatGPT.

Anxiously you waited for a reply.

But nothing changed.

And each day started to feel the same.

Endless matches led nowhere, conversations fizzled out, and connections never truly connected.

You traded real-world experiences for digital notifications, tying your confidence to heart icons and those three “omg-she’s-texting” gray dots in the text message box.

Your mornings became...routine.

Wake up, grab your phone, check Instagram, then Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, swipe through profile after profile, wondering why finding a meaningful relationship feels literally impossible.

Today, things have only gotten worse.

Everyone is on the apps, turning it into a constant race for attention.

More swiping, more wasted energy on dead-end messages.

It is exhausting, isn’t it?

You put in all this effort and pay all this money, only to come across fake profiles and bots, leaving you frustrated and fatigued, questioning your worth. 

And let’s not forget about the spam texts.

Oh yeah, those spam texts you’ve been getting. Where do you think they got your number from?

Sorry to break the news, but you gave your number to a fake girl that was on the app with the slogan, “Designed to Be Deleted.”

LOL.

Really, it should be reworded to “Designed to Be Addictive.”

Because these platforms are engineered to keep you hooked, spending more time, more money, and becoming more dependent.

You’re a techie, you know this. 

That’s why being on the apps makes you feel like sh*t. 

It’s not normal, dude. 

It’s not healthy. 

It’s not real.

And you improve nothing in the world of social skills, confidence, communication skills, and navigating the world of interpersonal relationships. 

When you are thirsty, you need water.

When you are hungry, you need food.

When you feel lonely, you need connection.

Connection is a fundamental human need.

And learning how to make an introduction and ask her out is your way to getting an actual date and finding a connection.

Forget this hustle culture nonsense that makes you abandon your relationships so you can find financial success.

Relationships are way more important than money.

Relationships are much more important than working out.

Harvard studies, still ongoing today, have confirmed that relationships are the key driver of happiness.

Oh, you don’t believe me? Simple question:

Would you rather be broke but surrounded by friends and family on an island, or filthy rich and completely…alone?

You’ve seen Cast Away.

You know what happened to Tom Hanks.

He ended up talking to a volleyball (kind of like talking to ChatGPT) and looked like a homeless wizard.

Look, no amount of swiping or texting can replace a real, face-to-face connection.

Can we keep it real for a sec?

Right now when it comes to dating these days you really have 3 practical options:

Option 1. Sign up for a dating app

Pros: easy, gives you a dopamine boost, and can avoid rejection

Cons: cost: $600 - thousands/annually, hours spent daily swiping (more money, since time is money), and it takes thousands of swipes to get a match

Option 2. Rely on friends or someone you know to make an introduction

Pros: easy, cost: maybe buying your friends dinner, and can kinda avoid rejection

Cons: rare this even happens, lazy lifestyle (pretty much the opposite of what made you smart and successful in the first place)

Option 3. Approach women you find attractive in a kind way, anytime you see them

Pros: cost: $0, unlocks a level of confidence you can’t even dream of, impossible to be catfished, lifelong mental strength skills acquired, transferable social skills acquired, leveled up communication skills, improved wit, and improved articulation skills

Cons: there’s a chance you may get rejected (even though rejection isn’t real, I’ll tell you why it’s a gift and why you should seek it – see chapter 10 when you get to the map below)

But something you may not have considered from the list of options is this:

Nothing compares to overcoming the fear of instant judgment on your appearance and social skills like approaching a woman you find attractive.

Nothing.

That’s why grown men with the best cars, the most money, and the best looks still struggle.

Because confidence can’t be bought.

It must be earned through grit, perseverance, and time.

And since we established that time is money – do you want to spend precious time learning this on your own?

How many trials and errors do you want to go through alone?

With no one there who truly understands the pain you feel from being rejected.

With no one to help you through the strategy?

It’s a journey, with lots of potholes.

That's why I created a course for someone with your mindset.

To give you the entire roadmap

In fact, here’s the journey you we will embark on together when you start.

I’ll guide you through it step-by-step and it won’t take years to do it.

In fact, I’ll help you level up in 28 days.

And the life changes you make will be indescribable.

To me, it’s one of life’s greatest mental achievements.

It’s like going into the army as a boy and coming out as Captain America.

You become a master of conversation, like a SEAL of social skills.

• Never worry again about feeling a bit out of place in the dating scene.
  
• Boost your confidence in social and dating situations.
  
• Overcome the self-doubt that makes you question, “Am I good enough?”
  
• Learn how to converse comfortably with women, in a natural way.
  
• Gain absolute confidence in life and business.
  
• Slay your anxiety once and for all so you can get a date.
  
• Go from “very shy and nervous” to “social and spontaneous.”

“But how does the average person take the first step, Payam?”

Introducing, Anxiety-Free Approach

AFA is your way out of the (costly) endless app cycle and your solution to approach anxiety.

This course is designed to help you delete your insecurities and finally break free, so you can start meeting women face to face without freezing up, feeling overwhelmed, or letting approach anxiety control your life.

Here's what you get with AFA

• Step-by-Step Guide. A proven, easy-to-follow 10-level roadmap that walks you through overcoming approach anxiety and starting conversations confidently anywhere.
  
• Strategic Daily Tasks. Small, manageable tasks that gradually build your courage and social skills, helping you tackle approach anxiety one step at a time.
  
• Tactics Based on Human Behavior. Learn techniques rooted in psychology so you can create authentic connections that go beyond mundane small talk.
  
• CIA Communication Techniques. Master the art of building rapport and navigating conversations with skills used by top CIA communicators.
  
• Emotional Intelligence Methods from NASA. Develop emotional intelligence strategies to read social cues and respond naturally.
  
• Mindset Reset. Break free from the fear of rejection and handle social situations with calmness and clarity.
  
• Proven Methods. Use techniques that consistently work for cold approaching, even if you’ve struggled in the past or have no experience.

Who this is for

• Men Who Struggle with Approach Anxiety. If you find it difficult to start conversations with women, this course is for you.
  
• Busy Professionals. High achievers who want to improve their social skills without wasting time on dating apps or generic advice.
  
• Socially Awkward Guys. If you feel overwhelmed with anxiety trying to cold approach someone, this course provides a clear, step-by-step path forward.
  
• Someone Who Needs a Roadmap. AFA offers a structured roadmap designed specifically for men who need a clear path to follow.
  
• Men Who Have Dating App Fatigue. If dating apps have drained your soul (and bank account), I’ll show you how to meet anyone in person.

Who this is NOT for

• Quick Fix Seekers. If you’re looking for shortcuts, magic lines, or gimmicks, this course isn’t for you.
  
• Unwilling to Try. If you’re not open to change or effort, this program won’t benefit you.
  
• One-Size-Fits-All Seekers. This course adapts to different comfort levels. It’s not a cookie-cutter solution.
  
• Not Serious About Relationships. I’m not here to help guys who just want to get laid or chase numbers.
  
• Not Serious About Learning. My advice is rooted in science, philosophy, and psychology from over 50+ books and 20 years of personal experience.

Why this matters now

This global experiment in isolation (the pandemic) has shown us something important: there is no substitute for being together with another human.

Even if AI advances or you get an AI girlfriend (yuck), it will not replace someone with a soul.

Someone imperfect but real.

Good relationships are proven to keep us happier and healthier.

But learning how to connect is not something you can afford to figure out on your own.

It takes too long and costs too much to go through trial and error.

That is why I have spent years distilling my experience, science, psychology, and philosophy into practical steps that actually work no matter your experience.

So you can…

Talk to women naturally.

Find an attractive woman who is attracted to you and learn the skill to be able to communicate confidently.

Have a permanent relationship, get married, and find a dedicated partner.

Your Transformation

Imagine walking into any room and feeling calm and confident.

Starting conversations with women becomes second nature.

You will start seeing approaching women and making an introduction as an exciting opportunity, not something to fear.

With this course, you will:

• Conquer Approach Anxiety: Learn how to overcome the mental blocks that have held you back and get out of your own head.
• Master Cold Approaching: Develop the skills to walk up to women, initiate conversations, and leave a positive impression.
• Create Genuine Connections: Move beyond small talk and build meaningful relationships.
• Boost Your Confidence Instantly: Gain the courage to approach women naturally and confidently, regardless of the setting.
• Master Lifelong Social Skills: Develop communication and confidence skills that will serve you not just in dating, but in every social and professional interaction – FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.

Start Your Journey Now

Priced at $297, offering tremendous value for what you receive.